Observation

Sometimes observation is not just a way to sure that what you see is true, but a way to prevent yourself from being part of what you look at.

Observing people and their behaviour is a poor substitute for being part of their lives.

More like guidelines

Originally this comes from the law of attraction. Personally, I think they're more like guidelines anyhow.

But you get what you give. I keep wondering about the negative view some PUA's have about women. Sure, if that's how you want to see the world, that is how your world will be.